Debunking The Competition Myth

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I always love sharing this with clients to help them debunk the competition myth.

Competition is a false idea that stems from a focus on lack and scarcity. A false idea that drives us to believe we have to one-upmanship each other in order to deserve and attain the success we desire.

Unfortunately we live in a rather obliging Universe, which by the law of attraction lines up events and circumstances to prove that our beliefs and ideas are right. That's why the most competitive people have to compete so hard to get what they want!

Fortunately, by the very same law of attraction, a shift in our focus and awareness can lay to rest the idea that we have to compete to get our own, and turn the tides of EASE and abundance in our favour.

The first step in changing that awareness is to consider this:

1) The Universe is no respecter of persons - there is no favouritism.

The Substance from which all material wealth is brought forward is available to each one of us equally and The Laws apply to everyone equally.

Your manifestation of abundance is based purely on your ability to perceive prosperity instead of lack and anyone can increase their prosperity consciousness so they may rise above constraining circumstances. With this understanding in mind, next...

2) Train your awareness on success. 

Seek evidence of it in your life and celebrate it - no matter how big or small. This will align you with the energy of success and attract more of it to you.

And if you have no laurels of your own to stand on, appreciate other people's successes as if they were your own. That is what got me through the scary, lean, panty-twisting first months of my coaching practice. In fact, the first time I signed a coaching client was after spending a whole day celebrating a friend's big win in filling her coaching practice.

Instead of going into a compete-and-compare mode, I was determined to align myself with the truth of abundance, and so I treated her success as though it was my own, and in the end... it was!

3) Know that you have a UNIQUE and valuable contribution to make.

Focus your attention on becoming the best at your job or business and provide the highest quality and value-add for your clients. And be the best at what you do in your own unique way.

When you appreciate your gifts and talents, and allow your unique way of doing things to shine through, you will never have to compete with anyone.

4) Take inspired action.

Listen to the intuitive prompting from within for guidance as to the right action to take so that you may be united with the clients (or jobs or any good for that matter) that are rightfully yours. Hey, sometimes NO action is required on your part - the right people just find you! (After all, what you seek, seeks you too.)

So, next time you find yourself wondering if there is enough to go around, go within andalign your thoughts and emotions with ideas of 'plenty'.

No coveting and no competing loved ones - your Good is available for you and only you, and it is waiting on you to call it forth.

Love and Prosperity,

Loago

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* Loago Madigele is a Law of Attraction coach based in Melbourne, Australia with a background in financial investing (former Certified Financial Analyst, Senior Equity Analyst) who uses Theta Healing in conjunction with Law of Attraction to give clients a unique perspective in creating their dream job and succeed in their careers. She is the creator of the Manifest Your Dream Job program and The Magic Manifesting Journal.

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Working Less To Get Ahead

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My clients are always surprised when I suggest they should work less but give more to get ahead.

At first it seems like a contradiction until you begin to understand at a deeper level that giving comes from the heart;

  • It is fuelled by passion and demands excellence and diligence of you.
  • It requires that you stand ready and willing to receive fair and generous reward for your contributions.

However, working longer hours filled with loitering, web surfing, and keeping up appearances is exhausting and taxing on the spirit. It's a signal to the universe, the God Source, that perhaps your time and talents are not worthy of high achievement and reward.

When you come from giving, you understand that your offering is of enormous value and your employer ultimately tunes into this new you, which translates into promotions and bigger pay checks.

This is not theory… I experienced this first hand back in my old life as an Equity Analyst. I cut back my work hours, maintained the quality of my work and service, and was rewarded with a promotion, pay rise and bonus.

And it was not a fluke either because my clients have done the same and have received amazing results too!

Granted, when you have an upgraded image of yourself, your boundaries change, you take different actions and you communicate differently. And it doesn't necessarily take big demonstrations to experience monumental shifts - a subtle change in your outer actions can move mountains.

Here is Abraham-hicks busting the work-hard- to-deserve-what-you-want myth: 

"If you believe that you must work hard in order to deserve the money that comes to you, then money cannot come to you unless you do work hard. Financial success, or any other kind of success, does not require hard work. It does require alignment of thought."

And this article is offering you a powerful way to create that alignment in thought (and belief):

Genuinely value what you have to offer right NOW, no matter how little you may think it is and watch as those around you start to value you even more. Then you won’t feel the need to try too hard nor have to justify why you deserve great rewards and fulfilment from your job or your business.

You can apply this in any area of your life. Appreciate how valuable you are as a love interest, as a friend, as a client, as a parent... and watch as the world responds in kind.

Love and Prosperity,

Loago

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* Loago Madigele is a Law of Attraction coach based in Melbourne, Australia with a background in financial investing (former Certified Financial Analyst, Senior Equity Analyst) who uses Theta Healing in conjunction with Law of Attraction to give clients a unique perspective in creating financial abundance and whatever else makes their heart sing. She is the creator of the Manifest Your Dream Job program and The Magic Manifesting Journal.

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Take This Job And Cherish It

As I get ready to kick off a brand new round of Manifest Your Dream Job round, I asked myself the single most powerful tip I could offer anyone wanting to manifest a new job and thrive in their career.

The answer: Love your current job.

Which can be easier said that done. Especially when there's a stark contrast between where we are now and where we want to be.

So we end up focusing on the very stuff about our current employment that's got us dissatisfied, hence bringing attention to the lack of what we want. As a result, our general mood when we think of manifesting our happy, dreamy new job is one of frustration.

But successful manifesting is about being in alignment with our desired outcome. That simply means, feeling good about what we want. And we can’t feel good about what we want when we are frustrated and pushing against "not having it." 

Meaning, the way out isn't to struggle against what is, but to embrace it ...

  • We have to make peace with whatever conditions we’ve been trying to escape.

Embracing where you are in life is not about giving up on your dreams and goals. It’s about acceptance and freedom.

It’s where the good vibes start and it's what paves the path to allowing new and exciting things to manifest in your career - promotions, increased income, recognition, etc.

So, if you've been feeling frustrated because you haven’t landed that dream job yet, and have been resenting where you are, try out these tips to point yourself in the directionof your dream job manifest (practicing even just one of these can make all the difference):

1. Stop complaining about your job

To your dog. Your partner. Or your sympathetic friends. Every time you tell the story of how bad you have it in your job, the Universe is hearing it as a request for more please. Especially if you are telling that story with passion! So you just have to acknowledge that where you are isn’t perfect, but find a way to not get stuck in the story of how bad it is.

2. See it as a stepping stone

You are where you are supposed to be right now so you can go where you are destined to be. You don’t see the big picture but Universe can see it all. It’s got it all under control and if you let it, it’ll take you on the path that prepares you to receive the best. In the meantime, just relax, be easy on yourself, and be willing to see your job as part of a bigger picture.

3. Find positive aspects about your job

Find something that you genuinely like and appreciate about your job. It can be anything. What about the fact you get paid … even if it’s not the best paying job, it puts a roof over your head, maybe even affords you neon colored undies. Perhaps it's in a good location. Or there's an elevator. Anything  that turns your mind around and gives you a foothold into a more positive vibe will serve you well.

4. Note what you like about your colleagues

It doesn’t matter who’s said what when to whom, you can always find some golden nugget to appreciate about your colleagues. Who’s friendly and always makes you smile? Who has the best jokes and stories? Really notice the best qualities of your workmates and milk them for all their worth to make yourself feel good, better, and happier about your job. This will also improve your work relationships and make a world of difference in your ability to enjoy your work.

5. Treat it like it’s the one

I firmly believe that we all deserve to be happy, fulfilled and well rewarded in our jobs, doing what we love to do. But this joy and happiness isn’t waiting for you in some dream job somewhere. It starts right here, with you, where you are, with the way you treat your current job. You have to cherish the job you've got and treat it like “it’s the one” if you expect it to give back to you, generously. That’s why I say in the live Manifest Your Dream Job program that your job is an offering of love, an offering of yourself. So, do your work with love and love yourself in your current job. Then watch as the prospering power of Love works it's magic and miracles in your career.

Sure you can still manifest a new job even if you don’t clean up your vibe. But guess what? Whatever conditions have been plaguing you in your current job will follow you to your new one. It’ll be different faces and different names, but the same old problems.

So really just find a way to love your job and be as happy as possible where you are. That joy sends a signal to the Universe that it has to match one way or other – with more success and joy where you are right now. Or better yet, with the manifestation of your ultimate crazy happy dream job.

Even if you are not looking to manifest a new job, you spend so much time at work that you owe it to yourself to be happy in your current job anyway.

Happy Manifesting!

Loago

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* Loago Madigele is a Law of Attraction coach based in Melbourne, Australia with a background in financial investing (former Certified Financial Analyst, Senior Equity Analyst) who uses Theta Healing in conjunction with Law of Attraction to give clients a unique perspective in creating their dream job and succeed in their careers. She is the creator of the Manifest Your Dream Job program and The Magic Manifesting Journal.

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