If you’ve coached with me before or have been in one of my courses, you’ll no doubt be familiar with this question.
The reason I’ve got so much love for it (Hubba Hubba!) is that, it’s such an easy way to get yourself into that sweet spot where you actually believe in and expect your desires to manifest.
And as any deliberate creator knows, life unfolds according to what we believe and expect to happen. Not what we want or wish to happen, but what we expect to happen.
Yet, even knowing this, many of us are skilled and practiced at entertaining thoughts that create doubt and reinforce beliefs that contradict our desires.
We are fluent in every reason under the sun why we can’t get a better job (tough economy), or be in a loving relationship (all the good guys are taken), or have a healthier body (old age) – and well, that’s gonna be Kryptonite to getting what we want!
But with this one question, you can swiftly dissolve doubts and stack the odds in your favour.
That question is:
"Why do I believe I can have this?"
Whatever ideal or achievement you are working towards, you have to give yourself a reason to believe that you can have it! That will help usher it in.
Maybe you believe:
You can have a loving and nurturing relationship because you are a high-value man (or woman): you are smart, confident, authentic, and charismatic. And your ideal mate will see all of this, and will adore and respect you for it. They’ll want to commit to you - not out of need, but because they want to.
- You can build a profitable business because the world-over there are people looking for a product or service just like yours to enhance their lives. And when they find you, they’ll know you are worth every single penny of your fee and will jump at the chance to work with you.
Sure, there may be many other professionals who are just as skilled and experienced as you are, but no one does the job like you. No one has your unique perspective, charm and personality – and the right employer is going to value all of you and be eager to hire you for your dream job.
So, why do you believe you can have what you want?
As you find answers to that question, you are opening your imagination to greater possibilities and claiming your desire.
You are literally creating new neural pathways and training your brain to believe in your ability to manifest your desire – and that cues the Universe to send it your way.
Yes, it may take practice and patience to find answers to that question, but it’ll be totally worth it:
- Nourishing your goals with faith and expectation is one of the most delightful feelings. It will empower you to put your whole heart in your endeavour. And as far as self-fulfilling prophecies go (well, that’s what beliefs are), wouldn’t you rather one that delights you?
What this question is NOT:
This question is not an opportunity to plead or justify. You are not comparing. You are not saying you deserve the spoils at the end of the pillage because you worked the darn hardest or fastest. You are simply staking your claim on your desire because you are worth it and you CAN have it.
This is your official invitation to try it out for yourself. Pick a goal, ideal, dream or ambition and ask yourself: "Why do I believe I can have this?"
Give yourself at least a few reasons to believe you can have what you want, and tell me how that feels? Hopeful, right?
The more you engage that question, the quicker you'll find yourself moving closer to that relaxed feeling of trust and anticipation that your goal is attainable - and when you do, you are you going to hit a home run:
You are going to be frolicking in the ocean with the love of your life; or choosing the furnishings for your dream home; or scheduling appointments with your new clients. (And I want to hear all about it... so keep me in the loop).
That question again:
"Why do I believe I can have this?"
Here's to unleashing the magic of believing!
Thanks for dropping by. You are adored.
* Loago Madigele is a Law of Attraction coach based in Melbourne, Australia with a background in financial investing (former Certified Financial Analyst, Senior Equity Analyst) who uses Theta Healing in conjunction with Law of Attraction to give clients a unique perspective in creating their dream job and succeed in their careers. She is the creator of the Manifest Your Dream Job program and The Magic Manifesting Journal.